Dealing with Difficult People
We’ve all been there. There’s that one person who just gets under our skin, who we can’t understand, and who operates in a way that makes little to no sense to us.
Three Keys to a Successful Relationship
There are three basic things you can do to make sure that your relationship is in a good place. Granted, I can’t make you (or your partner or partners) do any of these things, but I can let you know what these basic things are in the hopes that you’ll start to implement them.
Embrace the Boredom of Life
I’m just going to come out and say it. Life can be boring, mundane, and monotonous. There. It’s out in the open. Can’t take it back.
Your Life Is Now, Not in Five Years
I’m sure I’ve read something similar to this somewhere–most things I reflect on come from things I read or hear (probably not alone in that). SO, it was this notion that the best predictors for where you’re going to be tomorrow and then the next day and then the next week and so on is not where you are today, but what you’re doing.
Anxiety–Part II (Existential)
Alrighty, friends. This is a continuation of the first part in a series of posts on anxiety. Each post covers one distinct aspect of anxiety (existential, biological and genetic, evolutionary, psychological, and behavioral) and all aspects can comprise your (or anybody’s) experience with anxiety.
What Function Does it Serve?
Y’all are going to think I’m crazy, but this is way too relevant to not share. Okay–so most of us want to figure out what our problems are so that we can change them right away, so that we can fix them and be done with it. I mean, people come into therapy and counseling specifically for that reason. They feel some level of distress (something isn't quite working in their life) and they’re not quite sure what or how to “fix it.” Here’s where I come in...
Five Reasons to Put Yourself First
Tell me if this sounds familiar. Annabelle is a working woman. She’s got a full-time job that she loves, a partner that she loves, and great friends. She balances her time doing extra work around the office or bringing work home (trying to move up in her corporation), being with her partner through outings, dinner, or relaxing (usually with work in tow), and attending get-togethers with friends, whether planned or spontaneous. With all intents and purposes, Annabelle should feel ecstatic. In her own words, “I have everything I wanted to have at this point in my life...”